Always Think Positive

ALWAYS THINK POSITIVE: YOU WILL GET YOUR GOAL  !!!

• Believe with all your heart that you will do what you are supposed to do!
• Think and say only that which you wish to become true!
• We are all the products of our own thoughts. Whatever we concentrate upon, that we are!
• We should learn to live mentally in the ideal that we wish to make real!

JUST DO OR DIE: HE IS ONLY BEATEN WHO ADMITS IT  !!!

• If we are better mental builders we should be infinitely better material builders!
• It is the poverty attitude and the nervousness of our thoughts that has limited us!
• We tend to get what we expect, and if we expect noting we get nothing!
• Every achievement has its origin in the mind, every structure is first a mental structure!

JUST SMILE: NO ONE CAN STOP YOUR INNER HAPPINESS  !!!

• Happiness and freedom begin with an understanding of one principle: Some things are within our control and some things are not!
• Within our control are our own opinions, aspirations, desires and the things that repel us!
• These areas are quite rightly our concern because they are directly subject to our influence!
• We always have a choice about the contents and character of our inner lives!

CONCENTRATE YOUR MIND ON YOUR OWN BUSINESS  !!!

• But if you try to  control others, you will become a frustrated, anxious and fault-finding person!
• Keep your attention focused entirely on what is truly your own concern and be clear that what belongs to others is their business and none of yours!
• If it concerns anything outside your control, train yourself not to worry about it!
• When something happens the only  your attitude towards it is: You can either accept it or reject it!

DO NOT TALK: IN EVERY WORD YOUR REPUTATION DIES  !!!

• It is not things that disturb us, but our interpretation makes us worried!
• Things and people are not what we wish them to be nor what they seem to be, they are what they are!
• Things themselves do not hurt us nor do other people. How we view these things in another matter. It is our attitudes and reactions that make us trouble!
• We can not choose our external circumstances but we can always choose how we respond to them!

THE PROBLEM WE GET: IS FROM OUR OWN THOUGHTS  !!!

• We can not control which roles are assigned to us, it is our business to act our given role in a best manner!
• Just give an impeccable performance. If you are supposed to be a reader, just read the books with full of interest and enthusiasms!
• In trying to please others, we find misdirected towards what lies outside our sphere of influence!
• In doing so we lose our hold on our life’s purpose. Do not try to seem wise to others. If you want to live a wise life, live it on your own eyes!

OUR LIFE’S DESTINY CHANGES WITH OUR THOUGHTS   !!!

• We must conquer inward mental poverty before we can conquer outward poverty!
• The fault is in our thoughts and in our attitude of mind!
• You are capable of doing something much better than what you are doing!
• No one can help another very much when he sees in him a hopeless picture!

Raj K Pandey

GPO Box: 19862

Kathmandu (Nepal)

Mobile: 98510-86884

rajkpandey2000@yahoo.com

rajkpandey2000@hotmail.com

THE ART OF LIVING

THE ART OF LIVING –EPICTETUS  !!!

Happiness and freedom begin with a clear understanding of one principle: Some things are within our control and some things are not. Within our control are our own opinions, aspirations, desires and the things that repel us. These areas are quite rightly our concern because they are directly subject to our influence. We always have a choice about the contents and character of our inner lives. But if you try to  control others, you will become a frustrated, anxious and fault-finding person.

Keep your attention focused entirely on what is truly your own concern and be clear that what belongs to others is their business and none of yours. If it concerns anything outside your control, train yourself not to worry about it.

When something happens, the only thing in your power is your attitude towards it. You can either accept it or reject it. It is not things that disturb us, but our interpretation makes us worried. Things and people are not what we wish them to be nor what they seem to be, they are what they are.

Things themselves do not hurt us nor do other people. How we view these things in another matter. It is our attitudes and reactions that make us trouble. We can not choose our external reverses circumstances but we can always choose how we respond to them.

We can not control which roles are assigned to us, it must be our business to act our given role in a best manner. Just give an impeccable performance. If you are supposed to be a reader, just read the books with full of interest and enthusiasms>

In trying to please others, we find ourselves misdirected towards what lies outside our sphere of influence. In doing so we lose our hold on our life’s purpose. Do not try to seem wise to others. If you want to live a wise life, live it on your own eyes.

Raj K Pandey, MBA, MA

GPO Box: 19862

Jawalakhel, Lalitpur

Kathmandu (Nepal)

Mobile: 98510-86884

rajkpandey2000@yahoo.com

rajkpandey2000@hotmail.com

ALWAYS BE OPTIMISTIC

I searched and saw the cleaned blue sky. Again, I searched and found the crystal ocean. It only reinforced the belief that I always held, among all the precious things to be found; success is easily the rarest one.  Now, imagine how happy I am to have it. Either I will find a way or make it one for another success that I dream.

Today I am a little thing but tomorrow I will definitely be something when I reach to the destination by properly designing life with full of determination and inner willpower.  I think, when a man is tired of ‘hope’ and ‘duty,’ he is tired of life.

A winner never quits and the quitter never wins. Just do your constant duty and karma for your targeted vision. However, its possible result is beyond your direct control. No matter,  just act!
There is no thing, as a great success without great willpower. If you do not shake the tree a bit, the golden apples of good luck might not fall into your lap.

Life is matter of chance or choice? Fully concentrate in your mission and positively dream for your vision.


Sure, you will either find a way or make it one! Never compromise, fear and surrender with challenges: just face and make another strong foundation from them, which will make you more  determined in your goal.
You are surviving with full of elusions and mirages. Worrying about the temporary possessions are the root causes of your dissatisfaction and remorse.

Changes are permanent and universal law. You always fear of change but it is the only reality of your life.

Nobody can harm and easily make you feel inferior without your consent. If you negatively  react to the altered results, no one, but yourself have to suffer from your own reactionary chosen habits.


Time is great healer of everything but you have to pay the debt to achieve the  success. The debt is your continuous action that is under your direct control. Do or die: is choice and an outcome of your reaction for the external forces.

Just be a target-oriented worrier, you may loose the battle but not the war: never surrender, just do it now!  Always keep in mind, where and why you are heading for otherwise you may reach another destination.
Everyday living requires courage, if life is to be effective and bring happiness.  As long as there is life, there is danger. Courage in danger is half the betel and the test of it  is not to die but to live.

If you can find a way with no obstacles, it probably does not lead you anywhere. To live is not merely to breath, it is to act. 


You are what you repeatedly feed your mind and frequently do in action. Remind yourself you can be anything that you choose. 
 

Raj K Pandey
GPO Box: 19862
Kathmandu (Nepal)
Mobile: 98510-86884
rajkpandey2000@yahoo.com
rajkpandey2000@hotmail.com

Finally, No one can hurt me without my consent. I am what I am today because of the choice I made yesterday. You can choose: no reactive, but proactive habit for peace, progress and materialize the visions that you have in your life for the sake of success.

Why are you worrying about seriously ? It only passes away your present moments but does never change an unexpected possible results to be occurred

Nothing happens by accident

Nothing happens by accident...

If one day when you wake up, you would find on your bed a beautifully wrapped present with delicate bows, you would open it before even washing your face, curious about what is inside....

Maybe what you find is something you do not like very much...then you would put away the box wondering what to do with the  present...

But, if the next day you find another present, you would open it also and, if this time you find something inside that you like very much....

A memory from someone that is far away....a beautiful clothing you saw on a window shop...the keys to a new car....a beautiful winter coat...or just a beautiful flower from somebody that remembered you.....
This happens every day, but we do not realize it...
Every day when we wake up, it is there, before us, a present sent to us by God....a whole day to use in the best possible way
Sometimes it comes with problems, issues that we do not seem to be able to solve.  Sometimes it comes with sadness, deception, even tears...
But other times it comes full of surprises, happiness, success and achievements......

What is important is that every day we receive a present, wrapped especially for us while we sleep:
THE NEXT DAY.

We are presented this box with colored bows, no matter what the day brings........
That day when we wake up every morning is a PRESENT.....
The present that life gives us.
It is not always what we wish or what we hope for......
But it is the best for us, what we need most, what we have to learn.....what we need to grow...

Open your PRESENT every day, giving thanks first to the Creator that gave it to you, without thinking what is inside the box.
If today you do not receive the present you wanted, wait for the next one....and appreciate what you received today

Tomorrow... Open your present with love and enthusiasm, because one day your dreams and the life plan for you will come inside the box, beautifully wrapped for you...
Life does not care about what we want....just about what we need.....
And that is good
May you have a day full of blessings, in which you can feel the loving presence of your Creator, and may the present of every day bring you peace, spiritual growth, and enlightment on all we still have to learn about every day, and the plan life has for us, every day.....

A Tribute To Mothers

A Tribute To Mothers

A mother is someone who guides and inspires.

She helps us to attain our dreams and desires.

Wisdom and insight are part of her way,

and her faith in her children brightens their days.

All mothers are rich when they love their children. There are no poor mothers, no ugly ones, no old ones. Their love is always the most beautiful of joys.

                              —Maurice Maeterlinck (1862-1949)

She broke the bread into two fragments and gave them to the children, who ate with avidity.
       "She hath kept none for herself," grumbled the sergeant.
       "Because she is not hungry," said a soldier.
       "Because she is a mother," said the sergeant.

                    —Victor Hugo (1802-1885)

What a mother can do …

My mother said to me, "If you become a soldier, you'll be a general; if you become a monk, you'll end up as the pope." Instead I became a painter and wound up as Picasso.

      A partially deaf boy came home from school one day carrying a note from officials at the school. The note suggested that the parents take the boy out of school, claiming that he was "too stupid to learn."
     

      The boy's mother read the note and said, "My son Tom isn't 'too stupid to learn.' I'll teach him myself." And so she did.
      When Tom died many years later, the people of the United States of America paid tribute to him by turning off the nation's lights for one full minute. You see, this Tom had invented the light bulb—and not only that, but motion pictures and the record player. In all, Thomas Edison had more than one thousand patents to his credit.

My mother was the making of me.

—Thomas A. Edison (1847-1931)

An ounce of mother is worth a pound of clergy.

You may have tangible wealth untold;
       Caskets of jewels and coffers of gold.
       Richer than I you can never be—
       I had a mother who read to me.

   —Strickland Gillian (1869-1954)

The role of a mother is probably the most important career a woman can have.

—Janet Mary Riley (1915- ), U.S. Lawyer and Writer   

...but only one MOTHER in the whole world.

—Kate Douglas Wiggin  (1856-1923), U.S.  Author and Educator

Life began with waking up and loving my mother's face.

—George Eliot (1819-1880), British Novelist

Motherhood is the most important of all the professions...

...requiring more knowledge than any other department in human affairs.

 —Elizabeth Cady Stanton (1815-1902)

Money

MONEY

It can buy a House

But not a Home

It can buy a Bed

But not Sleep

It can buy a Clock

But not Time

It can buy you a Book

But not Knowledge

It can buy you a Position

But not Respect

It can buy you Medicine

But not Health

It can buy you Blood

But not Life

It can buy you Sex

But not Love

So you see money isn't everything.

I tell you all this because I am your Friend,

and as your Friend I want to take away your

pain and suffering.....

so send me all your money and I will suffer

for you.

A truer Friend than me you will never find.

CASH ONLY PLEASE.

Power to Forgive

Power to Forgive

“For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:

But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”

- Jesus

“Forgiveness is the fragrance that flowers breathe when they are trampled upon.”

“He who cannot forgive others, breaks the bridge over which he himself must pass; for every man has need to be forgiven.”

GEORGE HERBERT

“To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.”

LEWIS B. SMEDES

“The Weak can never forgive.
Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.”

MAHATMA GANDHI

“Yes, this is what good is:
To forgive evil. There is no other good.”

ANTONIO PORCHIA

REMEMBER THIS…

When the concentration camp at Ravensbrück, Germany, was liberated by the Allies after World War II, a piece of torn wrapping paper was found, on which an unknown prisoner had scribbled these lines:

“Oh Lord, remember not only the men and women of good will, but also those of ill will. But do not remember all the suffering they have inflicted on us; remember the fruits we have brought forth, thanks to this suffering – our comradeship, our loyalty, our humility, our courage, our generosity, the greatness of heart which has grown out of all this. And when they come to judgment, let all the fruits which we have borne be their forgiveness.”

LOVE ENOUGH

“You may feel that what you’ve suffered is unpardonable, beyond forgiveness, but God can lift that burden and give you a change of heart.
The miracle-working love of God is love enough to forgive – and to help you forgive.”

GABRIEL SARMIENTO

“Father forgive them,
for they know not what they do…”

-Jesus

You can receive God’s forgiveness by accepting Jesus as your Savior & asking Him into your heart. All you have  to do is say this little prayer:

“Dear Jesus, I open my life and heart to You now, and accept you as my Savior. Pease forgive me for the wrongs I’ve done, give me Your gift of eternal life, and help me get to know You and Your love and truth. Amen.”

“Be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.”